♥ Tuesday, 9 December 2008
@ 10:23 pm
happy birthday, KS
why you always like to dump me alone de,you should know i hate being alone.is juat with you around & without you around got no different at all.i'm not gg to be the girl who always listen to you anymore.won do anything i don feel lyk doing too.you don tell me your problem & so on.i'm just like a stranger to you.why is it so.?
can you tell me?
calvin went to play mahjong le.he quite long nv play liao lor since his new furniture come.i was reading a articles now & saw a article saying:
Nine Signs He Is Cheating
1.Less SexUnless he's Superman, he can only have so much sex. So, if he's getting it from another source, you might notice. Whether it's another woman, or a porn addiction-even if he's not cheating - a decrease in sex signals serious issues in the relationship.
2.Jumpy Cell Phone HabitsIn a perfect world, we'd be open about sharing our correspondence with our significant others. Most of the time, the trust so that we don't have to worry about who is texting or calling them. But, if you notice that he is getting protective and/or nervous when he gets calls or texts, it may be cause for alarm.
3.Gushing or Talking About Someone SuddenlyYou know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about them. One of my exes began talking about a guy a lot near the end of our relationship-he just always seemed to be at her social gatherings that I didn't happen to attend. Sure enough, after she dumped me, she began dating him.
4.DisconnectEven though relationships ebb and flow naturally, if you're sensing that he's drawing away from you, then there may be someone else. Emotional disconnect should be investigated regardless of whether it's caused by cheating. There's a problem if he's not laughing, or seeming as passionate as usual. It's hard to spread love/passion between two people, so the person who used to have it will feel it slipping away if it's being given to someone else.
5.He's Pulling HoudinisIf there he is disappearing, traveling, or unavailable to the point where you are starting to wonder, then he could be cheating. Also, these times tend to take on a pattern because it's tough to synch of schedules, especially in secret.
6.Friends Acting StrangeHis friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt and their behavior may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.
7.Caught In Other Lies About Other ThingsIf you catch him in a lie, your trust will naturally be damaged. Don't hold a grudge-forgiveness is a good thing. You can forgive, but don't forget. If he consistently breaches your trust, it's establishing a pattern of behavior that leads to cheating. Do yourself a favor: if he keeps lying, whether these lies are big or small, get out while you can and don't let him talk his way back in.
8.Been There, Done ThatI always say: "once a cheater, always a cheater." If he's done it before, he's definitely capable of doing it again. It has nothing to do with you, which is why you can't say that he cheated on his previous lover because she didn't keep him happy. Cheating is a self-serving act in which the cheater doesn't take his significant other into consideration. If someone is upfront with you that they've made mistakes in the past, maybe give them a chance-but make it a long probationary period before you let your guard down.
9.Your Gut Tells You SoDon't ignore your sixth sense. People are gifted at sensing when something doesn't feel right. Whether there are red flags in your relationship that are cluing you in or not, if something feels off don't ignore this feeling. Usually that feeling is right, and something intangible may have led to you figuring it all out.
